Jane Doe
How many times have you seen a rape scene in a movie? How about listened to a song in which women are sexually objectified and abused? We could think of a few. And we bet you could, too.
The entertainment industry makes a profit from sexual assault. In an ideal world, we’d like to believe that the television, film, and music industries would use their platform to raise awareness for sexual violence while also giving space for survivors to feel empowered to share their stories. Better yet, creating a social norm where survivors feel safe to report sexual violence.
Unfortunately, we live in a time where sexual assault scenes are not just prominent in television and film, but they are normalized. There are certain scenes or stories that sexual violence is almost expected. We see this with storylines such as the classic Hollywood trope, the drunk girl at the party whose clothes were a little “too tight” and she got too drunk to stop the assault… because you know somehow it’s her responsibility. This is where the issue lies, normalization of sexual violence is the foundation of rape culture.
Rape culture is a culture that tells survivors not to get raped, instead of telling perpetrators not to rape. The one experiencing violence is responsible for it. I have to ask myself with these types of scenes being so prominent; why are we teaching victims and survivors to be discouraged from sharing their own stories, whether it be from fear, stigma, judgment or simply not being believed.
The entertainment industry should teach survivors:
I mean you all truly think about it, if we were to use these powerful platforms and use these type of attention-catching scenes to educate young boys and men not to rape and normalize what consent means, Would things improve? Or even at the most basic level, use these prominent scenes to teach everyone, “until you hear a yes it is always no,” would things improve? But for some reason, Hollywood, and viewers alike, have settled on portraying sexual violence through the lens of victim-blaming and silencing, while simultaneously normalizing myths around sexual assault and this bleeds over into how we treat survivors in the real world.
Signed,
Jane Doe
We expand on our thoughts in Sexual Assault in Entertainment: Precious, a film—we feel—voices powerfully the actual experiences of sex abuse survivors.