Evan Jackson
Lately, it seems like I have been obsessed with becoming a dad.
No, not a real dad—I’m nowhere near ready for that—but a dog dad. In my momentary, and consistent and frequent, lapses in rationality, I tend to romanticize what it would be like to be a dog dad. These feelings are quickly smothered with logic, reason, and the tough truth that at this point in my life, I’d be a terrible dog dad (insert sad face emoji here). However, knowing all this doesn’t stop a particular coworker of mine from trying to convince me to get a puppy. That brings us to this current installment on the blog. I thought I’d take a page from a coworker’s book, and target those individuals who may be on the fence about getting a dog.
“But this is a blog for a sexual assault center. Not a dog blog.” Correct! And we’re here to tell you that owning a pet is directly related to healing and trauma and feelings of safety. At a base level, a dog is a constant and can help create routine, structure, and companionship in times when life feels out of control. Dogs can also become ESA and provide daily emotional support. Then at the top level, a dog can act as a service animal and can be trained to support, help, and protect people with various disabilities. I know people often think of physical disabilities such as blindness or seizures, but service dogs can also help with common mental health disorders that survivors struggle with, such as depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, etc.
So for those on the fence, here are five reasons you could bite the bullet and finally get that dog:
There’s an old saying that best explains this one. It goes, Put your wife and dog in the trunk of your car, leave for an hour, and come back and see who’s happy to see you.* (It made us cringe, too.) Dogs love you no matter what race, gender, orientation, religious creed you associate with. The joy of unconditional love is rewarding and arguably the best trait about having a little doggo. Additionally, with that love, dogs will forever support you, in their eyes you are the best thing since sliced bread. Imagine having a rough day full of stress and trauma triggers only to come home and be greeted by puppy hugs!
Dogs, especially when they’re young, are energetic balls of fluff. They’re always getting into something they’re not supposed to or playing with something they have no business playing with. Why not use that energy and put it to something instructive? You have just had a long day and you’re full of emotions and nervous energy, so you want to workout, but want a consistent partner. BOOM; get a doggo. Multi-task by taking your kiddo on a run that doubles as a potty break.
Dogs are always doing kooky things or making weird faces that make anyone who sees them laugh. In fact it is backed by science that dog owners laugh more than people who own cats or no pets; according to a study by Society and Animals. A good laugh can decrease stress and muscle tension while increasing immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies. These facts not only cement the fact that you should get a dog, but also show that dogs are inherently better than cats.
A recent study from the National Academy of Sciences suggests dogs can help us become immune to various allergens by helping us develop microbes to combat them. In addition dogs can be trained to smell for seizures and act as an alert system for their partner or others. Dogs can give us a sense of service, grounded, and a sense to be needed.
Okay, so we couldn’t decide on a theme for this one so we’ll just list some reasons. Dogs teach us responsibility and can be a precursor to parenthood. They provide security and will protect your home. Dogs can teach us selflessness at an early age, which teaches us that there are other beings that have their own separate needs outside of our own. Living with a dog can help add structure and routine with potty breaks, daily walks, and eating schedules. Having a routine can help combat stress, anxiety, and depression. Dogs can build confidence, and studies suggest that kids who grow up in homes with dogs are more confident than kids who didn’t. Arguably the most important fact above all else: They’re. So. Stinkin'. Cute.
To summarize, getting a dog can improve psychological well-being, physical health, overall mood, and lifestyle habits. But as with any major decision, you should always weigh the pros and cons as they pertain to your specific situation. Dogs are living beings, too, and they deserve a caring, loving commitment for the entire duration of their lives. With patience, time, care, and love, owning a dog can be one of the most rewarding experiences a person can have.